Sunday, January 3, 2010

It's for You.

I spent twenty-five years talking on the phone for work. I’d call customers or they’d call me. For seven years my calling in Church dealt with calling members to either set up an appointment, get answers to questions, or relay information. Now that I’m retired, I still seem to be on the phone all the time.

Phones don’t bother me much, but I try to avoid them when possible. I’m not alone. It seems that everyone in my family is afflicted with the same syndrome. When the phone rings a barrage of “Not me’s” goes through the house. If no one is expecting a call, no one wants to answer the phone. My wife is very much averse to speaking on the phone. If we need to call one of our children the conversation goes something like this:

Wife: Call (add name of child) and ask them (fill in the topic.)
Me: Why don’t you call them?
Wife: I don’t feel like talking on the phone.
Me: Whatever.

I call (add name of child.)

Me: What are you doing?
Child: Nothing.
Me: Ok, bye.
Wife: Wait! Ask (add name of child) if they want to come over for dinner.
Me: Do you want to come over for dinner?
Child: Sure.
Me: Ok, bye.
Wife: Wait! When can they come?
Me: When can you come?
Child: Soon.
Me: Ok, bye.
Wife: So, when are they coming?
Me: Soon.
Wife: What does that mean? What time are they coming?
Me: Soon.
Wife: Did you ask them what they were going to bring?
Me: No, you didn’t say to ask them to bring anything.
Wife: Are they bringing the movie they borrowed?
Me: I don’t know. Are they supposed to do it?
Wife: I can’t believe you don’t ask all the questions.
Me: I don’t know why you don’t call them yourself.
Wife: I don’t like to talk on the phone.
Me: Right....

Ring, ring....

Not me,



Stick said...

Our house is the opposite. We get MANY 1-800 calls from phone solicitors. We tell our kids to check caller ID before answering the phone. Instead, when it rings there is a mad dash to see who gets to answer it first, without checking the ID, and I LOVE talking to salespeople to tell them I'm not interested.

Inklings said...

I'm the same way as your wife. I'm okay if people call me, but I hate to call other people because I worry that I am calling at an inconvenient time.

Mr. Giggles said...

I'm fine talking on the phone, I just don't want to have to walk ALL THE WAY OVER THERE to get it! ;)

Nene said...

I like talking on the phone and so I have a headset that I can plug into the phone. Then I either stick the phone in my pocket or put an apron on that has a pocket and put it in there. Then I can go about whatever I'm doing and still talk on the phone. :0)